Serving Others as Silent Prayer

by Emily Vanden Heuvel

Prayer doesn’t just involve words we say; our actions can be prayers, too. Our acts of service to someone else can be a form of active prayer, transforming simple tasks into moments of connection with God. As we apply ourselves to the needs of others, we bring that person, community, or ministry into God's presence with us without saying a word. In this way, the simple work of service to someone else becomes our prayer.

An unexpected service project

Many years ago, when I was a teenager, my youth group performed a service project at a retirement home in our church’s neighborhood. Some of us played games with residents, while others helped throw a birthday party. My group, however, was assigned to work outside washing windows. It was summer, and it was hot. I felt disappointed and a little mad because our job didn’t seem as meaningful because we weren’t interacting directly with the residents.

At some point, my youth leader noticed my frustration. He encouraged me to view my work assignment from a different perspective. He suggested that I think about what life was like for those living in the facility—and pray for them while I worked. As we worked from one window to the next, our group fell silent, and I began to pray for each person living in the rooms on the other side of the glass. With every swipe of the cloth, I prayed for their safety, health, and comfort. I also prayed for their families and the dedicated and often overworked staff who cared for the residents.

That day, my attitude shifted, and what had seemed like a hard chore on a very hot day became an experience of prayer and thankfulness. I learned that acts of service can also be a way to pray. ! I didn't have to say a word. I didn't know any of their names or what concerns they had, but God did, and my work itself became a prayer on their behalf.

We can pray with our actions: whether we’re volunteering, pulling weeds, washing windows, or caring for someone in need.

Work becomes prayer

As you go about your day, consider the next time you offer care and service to someone in need–it could be an opportunity not just to serve but also to pray. Romans 12:12-13 encourages us: Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.” The next time you find yourself serving a friend or a stranger, remember your service can be turned into a living prayer, showing God’s compassion in action and displaying his love in a tangible way that may speak louder than words.